As Wang Feng said:\" We are quite so early to the two people to run together a lot of things, in their own body to digest a lot. So we were together, and it was easy from the start. \".
But back home, she faced her husband's disregard and silence, like married to a cold wall, whether they are crying or noisy, cannot get a response.
But for women, this is a powerful denial and rejection, and it sends a signal that I hate you, that I'm going to abandon you and cut you off.
If you thought you'd kept the tumor, you'd keep the evidence the other side owed you, and the other half would care more about you.
It took me seven years to accept the failure of my marriage and come out of the victim mentality. For seven years I resented him and felt miserable. Looking back every day, I was not happy at all.
Many of our expectations of marriage are excessive. We are too eager for happiness, to find the missing love of childhood from another person.
Entering marriage does not mean that the problem is solved, but rather the repetition of two people's native families, through the emergence of conflict and trauma, we know each other more deeply.
Love is the life and death of two people, marriage is a group of ups and downs. If a woman wants to run a good marriage, she must throw away the two things of reckoning and dependence.
It's the green light to think - to face your partner's shortcomings, not to rush to blame, not to rush to refute, but to help each other solve problems better with understanding and recognition.
Since then, every time her husband is angry, she will comfort:\" I can understand your sad, I know you do not want to \", or on the quiet accompany him, do not speak.
\"One of the most devastating ideas about a relationship is that if we need to work hard, it shows that there are very serious problems in our relationship,\" said marriage expert Alan Baker.